With less than 2 months to go until baby brother arrives, I've been soaking in time with my firstborn. Beckham is 2, and being pregnant with a toddler is definitely a challenge, as he is getting faster and stronger and I am getting slower and more prone to huffing and puffing. Last pregnancy, I felt borderline guilty for taking naps; this time I fully embrace it and am just grateful I have the chance. Though I should probably go to bed earlier, one of my favorite parts of the day is in the evenings when I relax on the couch to watch a show and feel baby kick and hiccup.
I was surprised how quickly Beckham picked up on the concept of a baby in my tummy. If I talk about "mommy's baby," he immediately tugs my shirt up to see my belly and will often squeal and blow raspberries against my stomach. I've explained to him that the baby is growing and needs to stay in my tummy till after Christmas, so now he'll say, "No come yet. After Christmas." A small mishap yesterday happened when I told him the baby was kicking my tummy and tried to have Beckham feel the kicks, but instead my playful little Beckham started trying to kick my stomach too (luckily not hard, and I stopped it very quickly).
More on Being Two
Beckham talks SO much. When he's mad, his go-to phrases are, "Hey that's mine," "Go away," or "Let go," (including telling the child-proof latch on the cabinet to let go). But he's also picked up some cute and funny things, such as talking himself up with, "I can do it," while climbing the most difficult things he could choose to climb at the playground; politely saying, "No thank you"; using "uh-uh" for a casual no; or responding, "Of course," when I say thank you. He is incredibly good at remembering people's names. He sings all the time and is ALWAYS requesting a full playlist of songs to either play on the radio or for me to sing.
The "binkie fairy" came this week and left streamers, a present, and a note telling him he was a big boy now and didn't need his binkie anymore. He was beyond excited to open a of Thomas the Train set and was immediately able to name 4/5 characters included. We're on our third night without his "bee-bee," and I've been amazed at how quickly he accepted that a binkie is no longer a part of his life now that he is a big boy and has his train set. Bedtime has taken a bit more effort, but ultimately it all has gone way better than I anticipated, especially for a kid who regularly freaked out if he didn't have his binkie before.
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| nothing more magical that seeing the real train in the distance while riding the kid train |
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| convinced him to wear the beanie just long enough to say "cheese" |





















