I love my sweet mama. The past 2 weeks have kind of thrown me for a loop, so I was grateful that she was willing to hop on a plane just like that. The older I get, the better of friends we become, and I realize there are a lot of things we have in common {for starters, I am starting to develop her unfortunate inability to sleep in}.
We picked her up on Saturday night and then headed straight for an all-you-can-eat Mongolian restaurant. Ah yes, I forgot to mention that Adam has been called to serve a mission in Mongolia in January! We couldn't be more excited, although we advise Mom against doing Internet research where she learns things like "they have rabies and the Bubonic Plague," "it gets to -40 degrees Celsius," and "they drink fermented horse milk."
Sunday we visited a random early ward and then hit the road. We drove through Provo Canyon up to Midway and Jungfrau Hill, then twisted our way towards Park City and back towards Donut Falls. The leaves are just starting to turn color. In the city, a flea market lined the streets, and Mom was so excited to find her beloved Spanish candy that she has been looking for ever since our Barcelona trip. Other excitements included taking a hike in flip-flops and Adam doing bizarre things like telling us to "punch that leaf! No, harder!" hugging/shaking trees and scaling logs that were propped up at dangerous angles.
That night we visited Becca and Taylor before picking up Katie from the airport at 11. The next day, after school but before the other kids got home, Mom was so kind as to stock up our pantries. Usually I hate too much time spent shopping, but now I was so happy to just hang out with her! The next two days we squeezed in as much time as we could with her, but it went too fast anyway.
I am mostly just grateful that I have a mom willing to stay up late for me and offer a shoulder to cry on with some really sound advice. Sometimes it's easy to forget that she used to be my age, and it was weird/comforting to learn how well she understands the things I go through based off her own experience! I sure love her, and I can't wait for her to come back!
Because things have gotten a little hectic with school, here is a bullet list of events that have transpired since I returned from Mexico:
- Dad dropped Rachel and I off with Adam, a Freshman here with us at BYU. While here, we visited Swiss Days, which I have been looking forward to for an entire year. I wore my dirndl and everything, expecting to find a genuine Swiss festival with authentic Swiss meats and cheeses and all of my mission buds running around. Unfortunately, these Utah vendors were instead selling things like "Swiss tacos" {really just Navajo Tacos}, but it's alright. I was quite satisfied with my candied almonds and Zopf {a soft pull-apart bread}. We ended up having a peaceful little picnic in the Canyon.
- While he was here, we also snuck into Grandma and Grandpa's old property, which was in the family for not quite a century and is now being totally renovated. Dad is much more gutsy than Mom, which meant that we checked out every nook and cranny of the construction sight and also enjoyed some fruit from the trees that Grandma planted (including Asian pears, plumbs and raspberries), since they were otherwise going to rot anyway.
- We visited Becca and Taylor and watched baby Sloane dance her little tush to the beat.
- School started. I am taking Language Development, Speech Anatomy, Acoustics of Music and Speech, Old Testament, and German Cultural History. I am psyched to actually be in my major, and I especially love being able to learn about language acquisition and the process it takes for kiddos to communicate!
- I had some heart-to-hearts with my dear high school friends Lindsey and Paige. Lindsey was actually the one who convinced me that therapy was worth a shot, and told me exactly who to see. So glad I took her advice way back in May or June; it has definitely changed everything!
- There is a huge fire tearing through Utah, a morbid combination of two smaller fires that has gotten completely out of control. The sky in Provo is brown and smells like a campground; people cough throughout class; my roommate's grandparents had to evacuate. Everyone is praying!
- I THREW A PARTY! Yes, this lil introvert wriggled her way out of her shell and ultimately got together a group of twenty people from the ward to have a pool party {plan changed from having a bonfire because we didn't want to risk that}. There was another group with twenty plus people there too so it was bumpin. Then one of the guys in the ward said he and his friends were driving to see the fire, and when I told him to take good pictures he told me to tag along! So Rachel, my roommate and I drove up with this group of guys and watched the ominous orange glow over the mountains.
To describe the chaos of our trip to Chichen Itza, one of the seven wonder of the world, I am just going to paste in some of my text messages from that day:
"My hotel is close to the highway, so my dad hopped on assuming there would be gas in the direction we were heading. Instead we drove for 30 minutes in between rows of jungle with 0 Turn offs and 0 ways to turn around . Google Maps said there was a gas station close, but it was on the other side of the forest with no road to access it! After 1/2 hour we had 40 KM left of gas but the first sign advertising gas said 112 KM away. So in a moment of desperation we flipped around on the only turn we saw and drove another 1/2 hour back. We had slightly less KM till empty left on our car display than the signs said it was to get gas. We started brainstorming ways to get gas in case of emergency if we ran out on the side of the road (we probably would've had to walk because there were no ways for anybody bringing us gas from Cancun to turn in our direction to reach us. I said a prayer. We arrived at the station with 1 KM to go.”
“Now USAA has put a hold on dad's credit card and we're almost out of cash!
We're sitting at the ticket area of the famous ruins... He had just enough of my cash to get our tickets but we have no money for food or gas or anything later. Btw, despite that whole trip we don't have enough gas for the return trip
And no one else brought wallets.”
The story ended like this: My dad used the rest of the money I had pulled out of my account the night before to pay for the tickets, while USAA failed to figure out why the account was still blocked despite my mom telling them before our trip that we would be in Mexico. He had 100 American dollars in emergency fund and got a cruddy exchange to buy gas, with a little bit left over. As we were in the car, though, Adam made some stupid joke along the lines of, “Guess what, Dad! I have $35 in my phone case! Just kidding!”
“I’m so glad you said that!” Dad replied. I thought he was sarcastic, because that joke certainly wasn’t funny at a stressful time like this. Actually, he was serious. “If you hadn’t said that, I would have completely forgotten that I put 700 pesos in my phone case two days ago!”
It was a serious blessing that he remembered that, and that he hadn’t spent it on souvenirs several hours before, because otherwise we would’ve have had enough money to get through all the toll roads! I’d say God was definitely watching out for us.
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| A Mayan sports area. The ball was supposed to go through the hoops, visible high up on the sides. |
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| the cenote where they once held virgin sacrifices |

A childhood history of chronic ear infections meant that I didn't get much out of swim lessons. Still, being a terrible swimmer doesn't hinder my fascination with water, and I have found that being in or around water has an insanely therapeutic effect on me.
As we sat on the top deck of the ship, I found inspiration for my book as I scribbled in a little notebook. We rode to Cozumel, and then we boarded a tiny boat and chopped through the aquamarine waters for 45 minutes before reaching the place they call Cielo-- Heaven.
There we snorkled. I tried to capture in my mind the incredible imagery, to label every organism with the perfect adjective, yet there is no way to describe something truly so beautiful. The dancing schools of fish, their scales interlaced with endless spectra? The fields of coral, frozen like golden waves that dive down into mustard chasms? The nibbling critters with bulging eyes or the creeping eel slithering from the deep? No, words don't describe. In a place so out of this world, one can only see to believe.
Of course, the Lundgreens can never be involved in anything unless there are animals present. It took ten minutes for my dad to pry my siblings away from a stray kitty to see the ruins; Eric bellowed "BIIIIIG BOOOOYYYY!" every time he encountered an iguana, and then this mama Coati and her baby waddled right up to us!
Family trips never go as planned, of course, and though we hoped to visit Tulum early so that we could visit a cenote and another set of ruins... they were closed by the time we arrived. Poor Mom and all her planning. The honest truth is that glammed-up pictures tend to hide all the grumpy moments that happen even -- or especially -- on vacations {myself being one of the grumpy ones}. But regardless, only the best of memories are made in the most unexpected ways, and I will never forget Liv giving that cat the massage of its life nor the gorgeous ruins so much bigger than we thought!
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